
By matching users who have similar experiences or even identical perspectives, these apps may limit the opportunity for personal growth and mutual learning.


Relationships, much like individuals, need diversity and growth to thrive. However, placing too much emphasis on shared experiences can lead to an echo-chamber effect, stifling growth in a relationship. They provide common ground, a shared narrative, and often a sense of camaraderie. Shared experiences can indeed create a strong bond between people.

The Overemphasis on Shared Experiences: Finding Balance for Enriching Connections